1. Is this consistent with Church teaching?
Yes. It’s a form of prayer and entrustment, not magic.
2. Can I ask for a husband/wife directly?
Yes. This is one of the most common intentions addressed to St. Joseph.
3. Can several people write a joint letter?
Yes. However, if they are not family, it is better for each person to have their own personal letter.
4. Does the letter have to be physically mailed?
No. You can leave it in a church, sanctuary, or at home near the statue.
5. How long does it take for a response?
It varies from person to person; it can be a month, a year, or longer, and sometimes the response comes in the form of a different grace than expected.
6. What if my request isn’t fulfilled as I hoped?
This is a prayer of entrustment, not an online order. If your request is different from God’s will, it may be difficult to accept, but try to trust that God only wants good things for you.
7. Do I need to know a special prayer?
No, you can write in your own words. A ready-made prayer (e.g., a litany from a prayer book) can be an addition.
8. Can I write several letters on different matters?
Yes. You can write as many as needed.
9. Can I pray in a different form after writing the letter?
Yes. You can pray for this intention in various ways, such as the rosary, litany, and other favorite forms.
10. Does St. Joseph always answer?
Yes, although not always in the way we expect.
Writing a letter to St. Joseph is inviting him into your life. It is a step that requires courage, honesty, and trust. St. Joseph was a man of action, but also of silence. He acted when necessary, but always in full union with God’s will.
If you desire a love that will be lasting, faithful, and rooted in God, entrust this matter to St. Joseph. Perhaps he will lead you to the person with whom you will build a holy, happy marriage.